I agree a lot with what you say (although I have a hard time imagining sexism putting a trans woman off transitioning, but that’s more about me than them, so).

This paragraph, especially, is important:

I hope one lesson people would learn from this is that it’s OK to experiment with your gender; that it’s OK to be uncertain about your gender; that being convinced you aren’t gender A, doesn’t inherently mean the only alternative is to become gender B. Because sadly, even within the trans communities, there’s not always a lot of space between.

I’ve been holding off on posting about him because I’ve had other things on my mind, though.

Anyway, yeah, there’s a lot of frustrating dogma in the trans community about who’s trans enough and what you’re supposed to do to prove it.