Life's a Drag! and My So-Called Life25 Mar 2008 09:50 pm

I’ve got a show at Aunt Charlie’s tomorrow night and I realized it’s been a year since I first took the stage as a dewy-eyed drag-princess-in-training. I’ll have some Deep Thoughts about drag in the near future, but tonight I just wanted to say thanks to all the singers whose songs I perform.

Special thanks to those who make up the core of my set list:

  • Candye Kane – “The toughest girl alive” whose voice is as big and beautiful as she is.

  • Joan Osborne - Best known as a one-hit wonder, she’s actually full of blues and soul and rock and sheer passion.

  • Grace Potter – A singer of near Joplinesque charisma who also plays a mean Hammond B-3 organ.

As well as to:

  • Shirley Bassey

  • The Be Good Tanyas

  • Bonnie Bramlett

  • Exene Cervenka

  • Wendi Colter

  • Martha Davis

  • Geri Halliwell

  • Chrissie Hynde

  • Deborah Iyall

  • Angelique Kidjo

  • Jill King

  • Lisa Koch

  • Rickie Lee Jones

  • Miranda Lambert

  • Annie Lennox

  • Courtney Love

  • Luscious Jackson

  • Allanah Myles

  • Bonnie Raitt

  • Susheela Raman

  • Dusty Springfield

  • Margo Timmins

  • KT Tunstall

  • Gretchen Wilson

I may mouth the words, but you came up with them. Thank you, thank you, thank you!

Reviews20 Mar 2008 08:34 pm

I’ve been on a LGBT history binge, here’s my reviews of what I’m been reading:

“The Rise and Fall of Gay Culture” by Daniel Harris – A very bitchy (and I use that word intentionally) book that simultaneously acidly critiques aspects of gay culture and sentimentalizes the “outsider” aspects of gay culture. It would’ve been nicer if the author has copped to this ambivalence in the introduction rather than the final page, since the swings initially come off as if the author just hates everything. But it’s got some great insights, and also offers some interesting looks at gay life outside the major metropolitan areas. For example, Harris discusses the “hobbyist” magazines that flourished in the 1950s and 1960s whose ostensible purpose was to connect people who shared common hobbies, but which quickly became thinly-veiled gay personal ads. Ads from the hinterlands by gay men seeking to meet someone, anyone, who lived locally are all too reminiscent of the posts I still see today on mailing list by deeply closeted crossdressers hoping to meet in person someone like themselves. (NY Times review here.)

“Odd Girls and Twilight Lovers: A History of Lesbian Life in Twentieth-Century America” by Lillian Faderman – Very well written and comprehensive history (up through 1991).

But a couple things left a bad taste my mouth: Faderman repeated insistence that some people seen as butches might in fact be trans men. To be fair, she was obviously reacting against the “invert” theory of the late 1800s that proposed [I]all[/I] lesbians “men trapped in women’s bodies,” and against the way masculinity was used to discredit lesbians and feminists. But she seems to want to ignore away evidence that some women living as men seemed to be doing so because they saw themselves as men. Plus both of her two actual references to “transsexuals” come complete with scare quotes—while Faderman is a little oblique, it seems like she was of the mindset that if trans people just freed themselves from gender stereotypes they wouldn’t need to transition. Finally, she misrepresents the [URL=”http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sandy_Stone”“]Sandy Stone[/URL] incident. Correctly stating that it caused a huge controversy when the women’s recording collective refused to fire Stone in the face of transphobic attacks by lesbian-feminists—Stone was specifically targeted in Janice Raymond’s “Transsexual Empire”—but neglecting to mention that the company later caved in to the demands and fired Stone.

“Wide-Open Town: A History of Queer San Francisco” to 1965 by Nan Alamilla Boyd – A bit on the academic side, but worth wading through the formal prose. Interestingly Boyd begins her book with a chapter on trans and gay male culture—and in fact argues that drag show nightclubs—featuring both drag queens and drag kings, and tolerated because of the tourist dollars they helped bring to the city—provided the city’s first publicly visible queer cultures and communities. Unlike New York, San Francisco was a “wide open town” in a variety of ways—from local politicians ignoring or downplaying morality issues, to the lack of entrenched political machines, to the lack of the Mafia; all of which caused San Francisco’s queer to differ greatly from New York’s. (Here’s a review by the San Francisco Chronicle.)

“Gay L.A.” by Lillian Faderman and Stuart Timmons. L.A. finally gets its due as the overlooked birthplace of many mainstays of today’s gay and lesbian institutions. This time around the scare quotes are gone and trans people do crop up now and then. But disappointingly, only three or four pages out of the 464 pages specifically looked at trans history. It came out in 2006, so Virgina Prince’s biography (as one was Vern and Bonnie Burroughs’ “Cross Dressing, Sex, and Gender,” both of which included a fair bit of trans history in L.A.) was available had the author’s cared to read it. (An example of how not only is history written by the victors, but how it’s written by those with the best meeting minutes.) It’s disappointing because early in the book the authors explicitly say they intend to do a comprehensive LGBT history—and that they used “gay” in their title because historically it had been used as an encompassing term that included LGB and T people. Like San Francisco, was also a “wide open town” in its own way compared to New York—with the film industry being a being a haven for all sorts of alternative behavior (as long as done discretely), fewer social hierarchies (since almost everyone was a relative newcomer) and an extremely diverse population.

“Gay New York: Gender, Urban Culture, and the Making of the Gay Male World, 1890-1940” by George Chauncey – Revelatory on how—at least within selected subcultures in New York City, concepts of sexual orientation and gender were far [I]more[/I] flexible than they are today. Aside from oral histories, Chauncey relies heavily on the reports filed by investigators of various “morals committee,” which gives an unusually detailed look at the lives of gay men in public places. (The book doesn’t look at lesbians and lesbian culture at all.)

“The Gay Metropolis: The Landmark History of Gay Life in America” by Charles Kaiser – Good for a general overview of gay and lesbian life in NYC from World War II through the early 1990s, mixing historical analysis with oral histories. But while Kaiser tries to include a spectrum of voices, it feel like it focused heavily on the lives of the gay/lesbian rich and famous.

In the Media and Musings19 Mar 2008 10:04 pm

A recent article about the Thai army’s decision to stop branding transsexual conscripts as mentally disturbed, reminded me that Thailand’s national draft lottery is one of the more interesting measures about the prevalence of trans-ness. It’s pretty close to a random sample of the country’s entire population of 20-year-old males. In the latest article, an Army spokesman said transsexuals make up less than 1 percent of conscript, although a different spokesman in a 2006 article said that 1% to 2% of those who show up for the draft lottery are either transvestites or transsexuals.

(Guess Eddie Izzard will be getting his 1st Battalion, Transvestite Brigade, Airborne Wing…)

It’s interesting that that 1-2% figure roughly tracks with the 2.8% of men and 0.4% of women, ages 18 to 60, who reported at least one episode of transvestic fetishism in a Swedish study that’s the only one I know of that posed the question to a random sample of the general population. (The question was actually part of a larger survey on a variety of health issues, which is why the Swedes surveyed the entire country.)

It’s seems reasonable to assume the Thai statistics represent a minimum estimate because despite Thailand’s reputation for trans tolerance, being dismissed from the Army for being trans has serious life-long consequences. (Because men are required to prove if they have completed their national service when they apply for jobs or bank loans ,and those with a “mental disorder” discharge are automatically disqualified from many jobs and mortgages.) So it’s reasonable to assume that only the most gender variant trans people are being spotted by the Army and that those who can closet themselves do so.

I’d treat the Swedish study as a rough estimate, since on the one hand, even though the survey promised anonymity, it’s not unreasonable to suspect some people probably didn’t admit to trans behavior. Especially since (according to those who’ve seen the full study—I’ve only seen the abstract myself) the question posed was “Have you ever dressed in clothes pertaining to the opposite sex and become sexually aroused by this?”. So besides people who weren’t willing to admit to this, there were probably trans people who answered “no” because they didn’t see their crossdressing as sexual motivated. On the other hand, since reportedly anyone who did so at least once was counted, it’s likely they may have counted some people who crossdressed as an experiment, but who probably wouldn’t be considered—nor see themselves—as trans.

I’ve heard rumors of a UK study that looked at what percentage of male patients brought to the emergency room were underdressed—i.e. wearing or more article of women’s clothing under their men’s clothing—but so far I’ve not found any evidence that the study exists. Since not all trans people underdress, the statistic (if it exists) would drastically under-report the actual numbers of trans people. But one might be able to combine it with some survey work looking at the prevalance of underdressing. Obviously once again you run into issues of properly sampling a closeted population. So any result number would be an extrapolation of uncertain data based on other uncertain data, and would be at best a rough estimate.

Trying to estimate the size of a closeted population is inherently imprecise. But my take on it is that it’s a bit like on-GPS navigation in sailing, in which compass/celestial sightings are inherently imprecise (due to the motion of the boat and other reasons). Nonetheless you can triangulate among enough of them to calculate your position in a useful way—albeit within what’s referred to as the “area of uncertainty.” So we’ll never have exact numbers, but if different methods end up with results in the same neighborhood, it may be possible to develop some estimates that have a greater reliability than the individual surveys.

In the Media19 Mar 2008 06:05 pm

Samuel Lamar Moore went on trial Tuesday in Mobile County Circuit Court, charged with murder in the October 2006 shooting death of Marco Little.The body of Little, 31, was found sprawled inside his Kimberlin Drive home near Old Government and Dawes roads, lying in what one police officer described as a “lot of blood.”...A motive for the killing was unclear. In testimony, the victim was described as a man who enjoyed dressing up as a woman and considered himself a transvestite.

And then there’s this joyful tidbit…
Patton, Phillips and Circuit Judge Rick Stout had a difficult time putting together a jury for this case.

Monday’s efforts fell by the wayside because, among other reasons, a significant number of potential jurors informed the court that due to their religious beliefs they might not be able to hear the case without prejudice.

Stout and company succeeded Tuesday in seating a jury that promised to consider the violent shooting death of a person—no matter what his sexual orientation—as unlawful and wrong.


Oy…

At least the judge recognized the possibility that prejudice might taint the jury and appears to be doing something about it. Too bad he had to remind the jury that murdering someone—even if he’s gay and/or a transvestite—might be wrong.

UPDATE: After a one-day trial, the jury took only 75 minutes to convict Moore of murder. BTW, a few more details about the murder: Moore shot “Coco” Little (who the defense called a “known transvestite”) twice in the head and the prosecutor “reminded jurors on Wednesday of how, according to Moore’s friends, the defendant had described Little’s death with contempt and inhumanity.”)

Appearances and Shopping!18 Mar 2008 09:53 pm

Over at My Husband Betty, we’ve been having one of our fluffier discussions: what lipstick do you use?

I’ve got a couple different shades that I use: MAC’s Taupe (not really taupe) with Spice lip liner is a good neutral day-time shade.

For evening or drag I tend to use Viva Glam IV (rose with gold) with Brick lip liner, or Media (reddish purple) with Vino lip liner, both of which are matched to the eye shadow/blush I’m wearing.

Both lip balm and foundation are helpful. Lip balm to prevent chapping, and a light coat of foundation will help the lipstick stay on. (Foundation does lighten your lips a bit, so you need to compensate by going a little dark with the shade of lipstick.) FWIW, a friend of mine claims that different brands can make a difference. For example, she finds MAC’s Russian Red really drying, but found the same shade elsewhere that works fine.

FYI, Paula’s Choice has the best lip brush I’ve seen—it holds a point like nothing else.

FWIW, one tip I learned: if you use a lip liner, first outline your lips, then lay the pencil on its side and feather inward. This both gives you lips a fuller look (since the edges of your lip will be slightly darker than middle, and avoids the “Joan Crawford look” if your lipstick wears off.

Musings18 Mar 2008 08:47 pm

Well worth a read.

The writer, Maia, tackles head-on the various arguments for trans-exclusion and comes to the conclusion that even trans woman who do fit the stereotype of reeking of entitlement/privilege should be included in women’s spaces.

Some highlights and more thoughts after the break. (more…)

In the Media and Reviews18 Mar 2008 07:32 pm

This month’s Out magazine is a special on trans issues. As part of that, they included a rather craptacular list of must-read trans books. I realize Out is a fashion magazine, but jeebus it’s a bizarre list. There’s a few good choices, a few books I’d never heard of that look like they may be interesting but I doubt are essential reading, and a few asinine choices (“Myra Breckinridge”).

As Diana said, yet another clear indicator that the real and perceived ‘’trans’’ communities are light years apart.

Fortunately Helen Boyd has posted her own list of essential trans reading with capsule reviews on her site. Modestly, Helen omits her books—“My Husband Betty” and “She’s Not The Man I Married”—which are definitely on my must-read list. (Sadly, both SNTMIM and Julia Serano’s excellent “Whipping Girl” were both overlooked for this year’s Lambda Literary Foundation’s list of finalists in the transgender category. One wonders whether the Lammies had any trans people on the review committee.)

Miscellany18 Mar 2008 06:11 pm

Since the beginning of the year, it’s been extremely hectic at work and I had health problems that left me with no energy, which thankfully I’ve taken care of. The upshot was that I started a number of posts, that I never got a chance to finish—until now. So you’ll be seeing some “retro-posting” to backfill the gaps.

In the Media16 Mar 2008 06:13 pm

The lead story on the front page of the today’s Sunday NY Times Arts and Leisure section is an extended extended profile of Izzard, who’s describing himself as an “off-duty transvestite” these days.

He doesn’t always mention being a transvestite in his shows, he said. But he did in the two I saw, and it worked as a disarming strategy: acknowledge it for fans who are wondering what happened, then move on. “I am a transvestite; I’m just off-duty at the moment,” he told the audience, and immediately went on, “I never was a transvestite; it was a tax thing.”

As he explained later: “Some people would heckle me and say ‘Where’s the dress?’ and I’d say ‘Don’t oppress me, you Nazi’ — tends to shut them up. Because I have fought for the right to be able to wear a dress, not that I have to wear a dress. I didn’t jump out of a not-wearing-dress box into a have-to-wear-dress box.”

But isn’t he now in a have-to-wear-pants box for career purposes?

“Slightly,” he acknowledged. “Socially, politically, the number of out transvestites in the public eye are few.” And in American-accented voices he imagined one studio executive trying to persuade another to hire him:

“ ‘Yeah, he’s a transvestite — but he hasn’t been wearing a dress for a while.’ ”

“ ‘Yeah, I suppose that’s O.K.’ ”

Being a transvestite is “still not part of the establishment,” he said. “ ‘Twelve transvestite senators turned up today’ — it hasn’t been said yet. You’re always sort of outside the loop.”

When he started performing in England, he wore ordinary men’s clothes but worried that the press would learn of his transvestism and run with the news in a lurid way. He told reporters that he was a transvestite; they thought it was a joke. “So I thought, I’ll wear a dress and wear makeup,” he said, “and they wrote, ‘O.K., he is a transvestite, but he looks a mess.’ ”

“By the time I got to America in ’96, I thought, I’m going to bring it to America so I don’t have to do a two-step here,” he said. Eventually people saw him only as the cross-dressing stand-up, though, so he veered again, and here he is as Doug Rich.

Sort of. In the poster art for “Stripped” he is wearing an open lacy shirt, suit and jeweled collar pin, an image he described as rock ’n’ roll. He may be wearing a bit of eye makeup — more than most men but less than Keith Richards. It’s a dandyish, Beau Brummel look that hints at the balance he has to find at this stage of his career.


The nice thing is that while Izzard’s crossdressing is obviously a factor in the profile, it’s not the focus. BTW, annoyingly the end of article seems to have been cut from a version that was up earlier—which had a nice closing line about Izzard being a worker ant bent on world domination.

In the Media11 Mar 2008 08:27 pm

Nice coverage from a trade paper about yachting industry conference, where a well-known figure in the field came out as a trans woman (it’s not clear, but seemingly it was in the context of her being on a panel that was discussing other things).

Even nicer was the supportive nature of the person who introduced her. And nicest of all was that the announcement was buried in the tail end of the story—in other words the reporter thought it was only incidentally interesting.

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